Separating or getting divorced

Find out what to do if you’re getting separated or divorced, including counselling, child support and custody.

  • How to get divorced in NZ

    A step by step guide to separating and getting divorced in NZ.

  • Separating from your spouse or partner

    You do not have to do anything official when you separate from your partner, but a separation agreement or separation order can help to keep things clear.

  • Applying for a divorce

    After you’ve been separated for at least 2 years, you can apply for a divorce through the Family Court. There are eligibility criteria to meet and an application fee when you apply.

  • Child custody

    If your relationship ends, you need to try to resolve child custody arrangements yourselves before you can go to court.

  • Relationship counselling

    Find a counsellor in your local area.

  • Child support

    Child support is paid by parents who do not live with their children, or who share care of their children with someone else.

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